[{"data":1,"prerenderedAt":10},["ShallowReactive",2],{"$fnwDcYoM4J7aU8RsXiyOQVhgl9mC1BaUuTm3o0YAdEoo":3},{"slug":4,"title":5,"excerpt":6,"publishedAt":7,"updatedAt":8,"html":9},"bad-therapy-why-the-kids-arent-growing-up-20260227","Bad Therapy: Why the Kids Aren't Growing Up","This book exposes how modern therapy culture and over-parenting are actually increasing anxiety and depression in children rather than helping them.","2026-02-27 03:32:50","2026-02-27 06:28:59","\u003Csection class=\"fulltext-section\" data-index=\"-100\">\n  \u003Ch2 class=\"fulltext-title\">Introduction\u003C/h2>\n  \u003Cp class=\"fulltext-detail\">&quot;Any intervention potent enough to cure is also powerful enough to hurt.  &quot;Youth mental health has deteriorated every decade since we started measuring it. Depression, anxiety, self-harm - all rising.  Meanwhile, therapy access has exploded.  More counselors in schools, more treatment options, earlier interventions. \u003C/p>\n  \u003Cp class=\"fulltext-detail\">This should have solved the problem.  Instead, outcomes keep worsening.  Shrier investigated why.  She found something disturbing: The mental health industry grows by creating patients. \u003C/p>\n  \u003Cp class=\"fulltext-detail\">Not intentionally malicious.  But when you ask kids daily how they feel, teach them to interpret normal stress as disorder, and offer treatment for typical adolescent struggles, you manufacture illness.\u003C/p>\n  \u003Cp class=\"fulltext-detail\">The book documents specific mechanisms of harm.  How therapy can create illness identity that becomes self-fulfilling. How gentle parenting produces entitled children who can&#x27;t handle frustration.  How school-based mental health screening pathologizes normal behavior. \u003C/p>\n  \u003Cp class=\"fulltext-detail\">How accommodations replace skill-building.  This isn&#x27;t anti-therapy.  Shrier distinguishes between treating actual disorders and medicalizing normal development. \u003C/p>\n  \u003Cp class=\"fulltext-detail\">The problem is an industry that can&#x27;t distinguish between the two because growth depends on not distinguishing.\u003C/p>\n  \u003Cp class=\"fulltext-detail\">What makes this controversial: She&#x27;s challenging the assumption that more mental health support automatically helps.  The data suggests otherwise.  Kids getting more intervention are doing worse.  That&#x27;s the treatment-prevalence paradox nobody wants to examine.\u003C/p>\n  \u003Cp class=\"fulltext-detail\">The book argues for radical subtraction.  Remove smartphone surveillance.  Stop daily emotion monitoring.  Let kids experience manageable failure. \u003C/p>\n  \u003Cp class=\"fulltext-detail\">Restore parental authority.  Trust natural resilience development over professional intervention.  If you&#x27;re concerned about youth mental health crisis, this presents evidence that our current approach might be causing what it claims to solve.\u003C/p>\n\u003C/section>\n\u003Csection class=\"fulltext-section\" data-index=\"1\">\n  \u003Ch2 class=\"fulltext-title\">More therapy, worse outcomes\u003C/h2>\n  \u003Cp class=\"fulltext-detail\">Let&#x27;s start with the central paradox that drives everything in this book.  In every area of medicine, more treatment means less disease. Better antibiotics meant fewer infection deaths.  Improved breast cancer screening dropped mortality rates.  More vaccines meant fewer sick kids. \u003C/p>\n  \u003Cp class=\"fulltext-detail\">The pattern is simple and it works everywhere except mental health.  Since 1946, the number of mental health professionals has increased sixteen fold. \u003C/p>\n  \u003Cp class=\"fulltext-detail\">We&#x27;ve doubled spending on mental health services almost every decade since 1986.  And during this entire expansion, adolescent depression and anxiety haven&#x27;t decreased.  They&#x27;ve gotten worse.\u003C/p>\n  \u003Cp class=\"fulltext-detail\">Teen suicide rates quadrupled between 1950 and 1988.  Mental illness became the leading cause of disability in children. This happened before smartphones existed.  Between 1990 and 2007, before any teenager had an iPhone, the number of mentally ill children rose thirty five fold. \u003C/p>\n  \u003Cp class=\"fulltext-detail\">A group of researchers published a paper specifically examining this.  They looked at data from multiple Western countries and found that despite dramatically better treatment for depression since the 1980s, not one country saw a reduction in major depressive disorder. \u003C/p>\n  \u003Cp class=\"fulltext-detail\">Many saw increases.  Their conclusion was blunt.  The increased availability of effective treatments should result in lower rates of depression.  It didn&#x27;t.\u003C/p>\n  \u003Cp class=\"fulltext-detail\">The same pattern holds for anxiety.  Nearly 40 percent of today&#x27;s young people have received mental health treatment compared to 26 percent of Gen X. Forty two percent have a diagnosis. \u003C/p>\n  \u003Cp class=\"fulltext-detail\">More kids on medication than ever before.  More accommodations in school.  Less stigma around treatment.  More therapeutic parenting from birth.  And the outcomes keep getting worse.\u003C/p>\n  \u003Cp class=\"fulltext-detail\">This isn&#x27;t a measurement problem.  Kids are actually killing themselves at higher rates.  The question the mental health field won&#x27;t ask is whether the treatment itself might be causing what it claims to solve.\u003C/p>\n\u003C/section>\n\u003Csection class=\"fulltext-section\" data-index=\"100\">\n  \u003Ch2 class=\"fulltext-title\">Review\u003C/h2>\n  \u003Cp class=\"fulltext-detail\">So here&#x27;s the uncomfortable truth: we&#x27;ve been told more help means better outcomes, but the data screams otherwise. \u003C/p>\n  \u003Cp class=\"fulltext-detail\">The treatment-prevalence paradox isn&#x27;t a puzzle—it&#x27;s a warning.  Every check-in that teaches kids to monitor their moods, every accommodation that replaces skill-building, every diagnosis that becomes identity—these aren&#x27;t solutions, they&#x27;re the problem wearing a lab coat.\u003C/p>\n  \u003Cp class=\"fulltext-detail\">Your move? Subtract before you add.  Take the phone.  Skip the screening.  Let them fail at something recoverable. \u003C/p>\n  \u003Cp class=\"fulltext-detail\">Trust that boredom, frustration, and manageable hardship aren&#x27;t bugs in childhood—they&#x27;re features.  Because the generation drowning in support might just need less of it to finally learn how to swim.\u003C/p>\n\u003C/section>",1772454502465]